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Jun 282014

women-the-aggressors-in-dvContrary to the overwhelming perception in society, numerous studies and statistics recently published from a variety of disparate sources have indicated that women are more likely to be verbally and physically aggressive to their partners than men, and are increasingly participating in serious acts of violence against other men, women, the elderly and children.

The findings were presented to a symposium on “intimate partner violence” (IPV) at the British Psychological Society’s Division of Forensic Psychology annual conference in Glasgow.

Dr Elizabeth Bates from the University of Cumbria and colleagues from the University of Central Lancashire gave 1104 students (706 women and 398 men) questionnaires about their physical aggression and controlling behaviour, towards partners and to same-sex others (including friends).

Women were revealed to be more likely to be physically aggressive to their partners, and men were more likely to be physically aggressive to their same-sex partners.

Women were also shown to engage in greater levels of controlling behavior, which is understood to be a predictor of physical aggression in both sexes.

“This was an interesting finding,” Dr Bates says. “Previous studies have sought to explain male violence towards women as rising from patriarchal values, which motivate men to seek to control women’s behaviour, using violence if necessary.

“This study found that women demonstrated a desire to control their partners and were more likely to use physical aggression than men.

“It wasn’t just pushing and shoving,” Dr Bates said, of responses to the anonymous questionnaire. “Some people were circling the boxes for things like beating up, kicking, and threatening to use a weapon.

“The feminist movement made violence towards women something we talk about. Now there is more support for men and more of them are coming forward.”

In another finding in Australia, the number of men who report experiencing domestic violence from their current partner has almost doubled since 2005, according to a new survey released last week by the Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS).

The ABS Personal Safety Survey 2012 collected information from men and women aged 18 years and over about their experience of violence since the age of 15.

Meanwhile, girls have been found to be more devious than boys in their torment of classmates, Australia’s biggest childhood study reveals.

Kids who are poor, overweight, Aboriginal, disabled or living with a single mother are most likely to be picked on in the playground, the Australian Institute of Family Studies has found in a survey of more than 4000 children aged 10 and 11.

Three in every five kids had been subjected to “unfriendly behaviour” in the past year, ranging from hitting to name-calling and being left out of social groups.

And according to new national crime figures women are now outpacing men in the violence stakes, with the rate of women committing assaults jumping 49 per cent since the mid 1990s.

Australian Institute of Criminology data shows the number of female assaults per 100,000 women increased from 125 to 186 between 1996 and 2010 compared to an increase of just 18 per cent for men, while other figures show that mother’s were by far the single biggest group responsible for child abuse and child murder in Australia.

Griffith University’s Violence Research and Prevention Program director Professor Paul Mazerolle said there was “no question” young women were getting more involved in violence: “There’s been a moderate increase in [female] violence but we as a community are less tolerant of violence so we’re seeing more of a response from police.”

Credit: Roberta Parisi – Family Law Express

  3 Responses to “Women more Controlling than Men: New Study finds”

  1. Having been a victim of a controlling female I could not agree more. My story in short; Married 13 years she had been having an affair with a friend for quite awhile, when she left me it was the lengths they went to, to get me off the seen as I was primary carer of the kids. He blamed another friend with an affair with her, down to ringing me saying where he was and the I should get him, which I did not he seemed to be a good friend to me. She was gaining entry to my or our house where I was living going though my computer and paper work but always changed something so I would know, change locks 4 times put cams in to stop it. The things the kids use say from her. 6 Mths after she left I found out what was really going on from him as he wanted to fight me and I walked away. That was a very small part of it, my lawyer wanted me to press stalking charges against her and an avo with him and as my lawyer said it would be best for my case as the courts still favoured the mother, this was 4 years ago. Now police don’t want to know about cases like this, 1 entering the house was a grey area, they want proof and there was no violence and was told they don’t like getting involved in domestics. So after years of making more than fair offers I finally was the one to threaten her to go to court after all of hers with some home movies and she settled in a week. The best thing was I kept my cool, and my best advice to anyone is at the end of it never forget you have to live with it and life’s pretty good for me now.
    So next survey how many cases are not recorded? I am a aussie btw. Cheers

  2. As a female I STRONGLY AGREE as this applies in alot of western countries.

  3. Good morning, my brother lives in australia and has children from two women. A son from one and two girls from the other. His son’s mom has stopped his visiting rights citing various allegations etc. Its been one year already. Yesterday he was suppose to have seen his son (6 years old) for the first time, and it didnt go well – his son saying ‘i dont want to see my dad’. This has devasted him so much and I am worried about him. All he wants is to see and spend time with his son. He is in Melbourne – is there anyone anywhere you can suggest he can go to please please. His daughters mother also has issues and dont want him to see the girls or make excuses etc. What can be done. He feels helpless. His a good dad and this is payback – they are looking at any excuse to keep him away from the chiildren because things did not work out with them. Thank you for your time. dale

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